and
Max Chittister

Saturday,
July
27, 2002
3:30 p.m.
The Mary
Keane
House
Lake Mascoma
Enfield, New
Hampshire
Robyn
Marie
Nace
and
Max
Chittister
invite you
to share
in their
wedding
celebration
on the
twenty-seventh
of July
Two thousand
and two
at half past
three in the afternoon
The Mary
Keane
House
on Lake
Mascoma
Enfield, New
Hampshire
Reception
to
follow ceremony
The Shaker
Inn
(in order of appearance)
| Composer and Pianist | Pete Hummon |
| Officiant | Joanne Gamache |
| Groom | Max Chittister |
| Grandmother of the Groom | Marie Trimble |
| Parents of the Groom | Clyde and Sandy Chittister |
| Grandparents of the Bride | Joe and Diane Matoney |
| Parents of the Bride | Bob and Kathy Nace |
| Ring Bearer | Jake Shepherd |
| Flower Girls | Jennifer and Katie Swonger |
| Bridesmaids | Jessica Demorest, Kari Dickinson, and Anna M. Lorch |
| Groomsmen | Hunter Howe, Jason Specland, and Donovan Chase |
| Maid of Honor | Ann Nace |
| Best Man | Ben Dick |
| Matron of Honor | Penny Rowe |
| Best Man | Taylor Wray |
| Bride | Robyn M. Nace |
| Reader | Kellie M. Walsh |
| Vocalists | Christine Frydenborg, Ph.D. and Jason Specland |
| Ring Exchange | Sandy Chittister and Kathy Nace |
| Final Blessing | Clyde Chittister, Bob Nace, and Joe Matoney, Sr. |
Behind the Scenes
| Wedding Coordinator | Melanie Bibbo, Blissful Beginnings |
| Photographers | Shirley and Steve Blankinship, Images by Meredith Theodore |
| Engagement Photo | Greg Fortier, Fortier Fotography |
| Entertainment | Louis Fucci, Jr., Lou's Mobile Music |
| Program Book | Robyn M. Nace |
| Bride's Hair and Makeup | Ann Nace and Katie Wray |
| Photo Montage Digital Artist | Adam Shlian |
| Town Criers | Kellie M. Walsh and Maurice Kessler |
Processional
Robyn's Processional
Composed and Played Pete Hummon
Opening
Love Story • Rumi
Read by Robyn M. Nace and Max Chittister
The minute I heard my first love story
I started looking for you, not knowing
How blind that was.
Lovers don't finally meet somewhere.
They're in each other all along.
Introduction
and Gathering Prayer
Joanne Gamache, Justice of the Peace
Joanne
Join me now in offering Max and Robyn our communal blessing on this
first step in their married life.
All
Max and Robyn, we, your family and friends, offer our blessings
on your journey together and pledge to always uphold you and your
marriage
with our continued love, assistance, wisdom, comfort, and encouragement.
First
Reading
Apache Blessing
Read by Kellie M. Walsh
Now you will feel no rain; For each of you will be shelter to the
other.
Now you will feel no cold; For each of you will be warmth to the other.
Now there is no more loneliness for you; For each of you will be
companion
to the other.
Now you are two bodies; But there is only one life before you.
Go now to your dwelling place; To enter into the days of your
togetherness.
And may your days be good, and long upon the earth.
First Song
That's All I've Got to
Say • The Last Unicorn
Performed by Robyn M. Nace
I've had time to write a book
About the way you act and look,
But I haven't got a paragraph.
The words are always getting in my way.
Anyway I love you.
That's all I have to tell you.
That's all I've got to say.
Second
Reading
Untitled • Roy Croft
Read by Kellie M. Walsh
I love you,
Not only for what you are,
But for what I am
When I am with you,
Not only for what
You have made of yourself,
But for what
You are making of me.
I love you
For the part of me
That you bring out;
I love you
For putting your hand
Into my heaped up heart
And passing over
All the foolish, weak things
That you can't help
Dimly seeing there,
And for drawing out into the light
All the beautiful belongings
That no one else had looked
Quite far enough to find.
I love you because you
Are helping me to make
Of the lumber of my life
Not a tavern
But a temple;
Out of the works
Of my every day
Not a reproach
But a song
Address
Second
Song
You Are My Home
• The Scarlet Pimpernel
Performed by Christine Frydenborg & Jason Specland
Accompanied by Pete Hummon
You are my home
You make me strong
And in this world of strangers
I belong to someone
You are all I know
You're all I have
I won't let go
Charge and Declaration of Intent
Vows
Ring
Exchange
Rings presented by Kathy Nace and Sandy Chittister
On behalf of our family and friends, I welcome you to our family and bless this ring for you to wear as a symbol of the new family that you begin today.
Rings exchanged by Robyn M. Nace and Max Chittister
I hope you will wear this ring as a reminder that I love you every day of your life.
Final
Blessing
Irish Blessings
Read by Clyde Chittister, Joe Matoney, Sr., and Bob Nace
Clyde
Joe
May the road rise up to meet you. May the wind be always at your
back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face
And the rains fall soft upon your fields. And, until we meet again,
may God hold you in the palm of His hand.
Bob
All
Recessional
Book of Days • Enya
This day ends together, far and away
Donovan Chase (Groomsman)
Donovan first met Max in room UC318 at Carnegie Mellon for one of the
writing meetings for Max's Locked in the O on a Friday Night.
This
would prove fitting, as Donovan would spend much of the next 4 1/2
years
there, all the while regarding Max as a dry, cynical mentor (think
Ambrose
Bierce crossed with Obi Wan Kenobi). Donovan met Robyn during the Godspell
run,
as she showed off her lucky Godspell shoes. He recalls
thinking
"anyone with lucky shoes can only be cool." Donovan stands by that
opinion.
Clyde Chittister (Father of the Groom)
Clyde met Max in September of 1976, but didn't get to know him until
much later. They spent some time together early on, but their
relationship
advanced a lot as Max got older. Actually, speaking can't be overrated
as a form of communication, so when he learned to speak they did much
better.
Now if Clyde could only get him to listen. Max was and is a great
friend.
He treats his mother well, calls often, and never once "made me come up
there."
Max Chittister (Groom)
In the fall of 1994, Max was just starting his college education at
Carnegie Mellon University. He went to an informational meeting for
Scotch
`n' Soda Theatre, and he saw a cute redhead. "Hey, that's a cute girl,"
he thought. "If I wasn't already dating someone else, I'd ask her out."
Soon, he wasn't dating someone else. Eventually, he asked the cute
redhead
out. She said no. She was dating someone else. Soon, she wasn't dating
someone else, and Max and the cute redhead starting dating. They
haven't
dated anyone else since, and Max is OK with that trend continuing for
the
rest of his life.
Sandy Chittister (Mother of the Groom)
Sandy met Max September 3, 1976, the day before her birthday. He is
still the best birthday present she has ever gotten. Being the "meanest
mom in the neighborhood" has been a joy. Sandy wishes she could take
credit
for his intelligence, wit, kindless, loyalty, and long list of talents,
but she can't. Max arrived with all those things. The only thing she
can
take credit for is the frosted brownies. "I know Robyn and Max will
have
a long, happy life as they meet the challenges and welcome the joys of
marriage."
Jessica Demorest (Bridesmaid)
Jessica is a really super cool awesome freshmen, who knows Robyn
because
she is her very cool cousin (who unfortunately lives on the opposite
coast
so they don't get to see each other often, which bums Jessica out).
Jessica
hopes that Robyn and Max are very happy together, and that they visit
her
often. A piece of advice: "If you ever have a son, don't name it
Milton.
There was a little boy named Milton at the beach, and I just felt so
sorry
for the poor thing."
Ben Dick (Best Man)
Ben met Max three years ago while auditioning for Death by Chocolate,
and through Max he met Robyn. Since that time Ben has had the chance to
work with both Max and Robyn in a theatre capacity, and, more
importantly,
has had the chance to become their friend. He knows that the two of
them
will be eternally happy together, as they are each the perfect
complement
for the other. It's an honor for him to be a part of this ceremony. He
wishes them nothing but the best.
Kari Dickinson (Bridesmaid)
Kari is thrilled to be a part of Robyn and Max's wedding. She met Robyn
at College Park High School in Pleasant Hill, California, where they
had
adjoining lockers and participated in a host of drama productions
together.
They shared many high school experiences, from going on a "Mormon" date
with a male friend, to sitting in the nosebleed seats at a production
of
Les
Misérables in San Francisco. Kari now lives in the land of
cheese
with her husband, John, and very demanding cat, Nala. She is beginning
a master's program in arts administration this fall at the University
of
Wisconsin-Madison.
Christine Frydenborg, Ph.D. (Vocalist)
Christine met Robyn at the auditions for The Philadelphia Story
in January 2001, when Robyn volunteered her to read for a part that
Robyn
thought she would be perfect for... Liz. Well, Robyn was right and they
became friends, of course! Having moved here 2 1/2 years ago from
Stamford,
CT, Christine returned to theater in order to meet people and is go
glad
that it worked so well - Tutti frutti, right Robyn? Robyn was such a
cute
15 year old. Anyway, now Christine has someone to sit through cold
Pride
games with. She is honored to be a part of this wedding and more
honored
that Robyn and Max have such faith in her singing. By day, Christine is
a psychologist for a large private practice in Nashua. If she has two
cats,
it is Robyn's fault!
Joanne Gamache (Officiant)
Joanne met Robyn at the auditions for Sabrina Fair in 1999,
and Max during the rehearsals for it. She was impressed with their
talent
and has since been blessed with their friendship. Joanne is a
professional
Storyteller and lives in Bedford, NH with her husband Marc and stepson
Nicolas. She wishes Robyn and Max love and joy in the years to come and
a journey together that lasts a lifetime.
Hunter Howe (Groomsman)
Hunter, a native of Providence, is currently pursuing his masters
degree
in Entertainment Technology at Carnegie Mellon University. Though they
narrowly missed each other by a summer, Max and Hunter are friends
eternally
bonded through their membership of CMU's improv troupe, The No Parking
Players. A lover of games, Hunter is deeply grateful for the
introduction
Max and Robyn gave him to the world of Catan, an island province to
which
Hunter has since laid claim and dominated as its uncontested ruler for
several years.
Pete Hummon (Composer and Pianist)
Max is by far Pete's oldest friend. Pete still recalls that as a
third-grader,
he got into quite a few absorbing debates with Max Chittister,
first-grader.
Topics included Star Wars, who would win if He-Man and the
Incredible
Hulk had a war, and which teacher was the meanest. Although Pete was
two
years ahead of Max in school, he seemingly recalls Max won most of
those
arguments. Pete is currently a network engineer living in New York
City.
He and Max have been through more adventures than either can possibly
count.
"I wish you and your beautiful wife all the best, my friend ...
although
Mrs. Marciano was the meanest because she once yelled
at
me for drinking too long at a water fountain."
Anna Lorch (Bridesmaid)
Anna met Robyn on the first day of Orientation at Carnegie Mellon.
They arrived in their tiny, cramped suite several hours before their
nutty,
neurotic roommates arrived. Little did Anna know as they fought over
late
night noise (Anna caused the noise at 2 a.m. and Robyn objected for
some
odd reason concerning lack of sleep) that Robyn would become one of her
closest friends. Anna wishes Max and Robyn a lifetime of happiness
together.
And, Anna expects them to always accept late night frantic phone calls
from her.
Diane Matoney (Grandmother of the Bride)
Diane first met Robyn when Robyn was about five years old. Robyn was
quite a young lady, even then. Grandma was very impressed that Robyn
was
able to read the menu and decide for herself what she wanted. She was
in
kindergarten at the time. Robyn has since grown into a very wonderful
young
lady. Diane and Joe met Max when Robyn and he were at Carnegie Mellon
and
have grown very, very fond of him. "Needless to say, we wish them both
a wonderful life together."
Joe Matoney, Sr. (Grandfather of the Bride)
Of course, Joe has known Robyn all her life. He will never forget the
day shortly after Robyn started school when she read him a story from a
school book. She then read the story of Cinderella. He had
never
been so shocked in his life before or since. He was totally unprepared
for this performance and has continued to be amazed by her performances
ever since. Whenever Joe and Diane would visit Robyn at Carnegie
Mellon,
it always seemed that Max was in the background some place. They didn't
really have time to spend with him until the week of Robyn's
graduation.
They then made up for lost time. They arranged for a graduation party
for
Robyn, where they met Max's parents for the first time. Joe and Diane
really
enjoyed their company. "We were so proud of what Max and Robyn had
accomplished,
and we guess it showed. Grandma and I wish them much happiness in their
future life together."
Ann Nace (Maid of Honor)
Ann is Robyn's younger sister. She is a Communication major at San
Diego State University California. Ann is glad to see that her sister
was
able to find a wonderful man with whom she can share her life. Ann
would
like to commend Max for being able to live with a difficult woman. She
would also like to wish the newlyweds a long life full of happiness and
love.
Bob Nace (Father of the Bride)
When Bob first met Robyn, he had to take her picture with a flash
camera.
She was a couple of hours old and she jumped toward the light (and she
always wants to be in the light).
Kathy Nace (Mother of the Bride)
The first time Kathy met Robyn was on September 26, 1975—the day she was born. Robyn entered the world and has been "center stage" ever since. Watching her grow into a fine young adult, "I am proud of her accomplishments. Robyn and Max, may your lives be filled with happiness. And Max, welcome to the family."
Robyn M. Nace (Bride)
Robyn is a redhead not known for quickness in decision making. She
and Max were friends for some time. She thought, "If you don't date
your
friends, then who do you date?" This led to a three hour long
conversation
during which Robyn and Max decided that they weren't going to date.
Then,
Robyn said, "I'm going to kiss you now." Max didn't argue. This all led
to several shared addresses, two cross-country moves, one purchased
house,
two cats, many games of Trivial Pursuit, much more kissing, and a
belief
that Max is truly the most wonderful man in the world.
Penny Rowe (Matron of Honor)
Penny lives in Tacoma, WA with her husband Steven and their two great
kids. She is delighted to be Robyn's matron of honor! Robyn was the
first
person Penny met in high school. Penny thinks the most fun thing they
ever
did together was the several-day trip to Santa Cruz. But equally
valuable
were the nighttime walks to that little park where they sat and talked
about everything important. Robyn has always made Penny feel like it's
okay and even really cool to be who she is. Penny is so grateful for
Robyn's
friendship, and is so happy for her and Max! "Robyn and Max, best
wishes
for a wonderful marriage! Oh, and here's some advice... Take a really
fun
honeymoon now or as soon as you can. Then take small mini-honeymoons
whenever
you can after that, and be sure to have lots of fun together."
Jake Shepherd (Ring Bearer)
Jake is seven years old. He lives in Coronado, CA with his two older
brothers Nick and Scott, and older sister Sandy. His parents Susan and
Bruce are Robyn's aunt and uncle. Jake likes soccer, karate, baseball,
swimming, and playing with his dog Anita.
Jason Specland (Groomsman, Vocalist)
Jason first met Robyn when she appeared in the CMU Spring Carnival
production of Nemeses. He received no critical acclaim for his
role
as "lighting board operator" in that production. Jason left CMU shortly
after Nemeses, but returned a few years later where he reacquainted
himself
with Robyn, and got to know Max. Jason became very active in Scotch `n'
Soda. He directed Max in the No Parking Players improv troupe and was
directed
by Robyn in
Godspell, in which he played the dual role of Judas
and John the Baptist. Jason now lives and works in and around New York
City. He has worked with the Upright Citizens Brigade, performed as
"Seth/third
storyteller from the left" in Children of Eden, and appeared in
dozens of smaller performances. He has received much acclaim for his
love
of Paula Galloway, although much of that acclaim is from Ms. Galloway
herself.
Jennifer Swonger (Flower Girl)
This is Jennifer's second appearance in a wedding, but her first as
a flower girl. Her previous performance as a ring bearer drew rave
reviews,
and she welcomes the opportunity to broaden her artistic horizons.
Jennifer
first met Robyn and Max at Oracle, and thinks that both have really
cool
toys.
Katie Swonger (Flower Girl)
Katie first met Robyn at work (Robyn's, not Katie's). Max was probably
there too, but didn't fawn over Katie as much and thus went unnoticed.
Katie shares a passion for the Nashua Pride with Robyn and Max, in
large
part because they are pushovers for buying goodies that Mom and Dad
will
not. This is Katie's first appearance in a wedding.
Marie Trimble (Grandmother of the Groom)
Max was the first grandchild and a very welcome addition to the family.
Max is the reason Marie learned to drive. John, his grandfather, didn't
like to drive long distances or in the city. Marie was afraid that she
wouldn't get to see Max as often as she wanted, so in her 50's, she got
her driver's license. She still hasn't had to drive herself to
Pittsburgh,
but thanks to Max, she could if she had to. John and Marie were married
for almost 56 years. "I know he would join me in wishing Max and Robyn
every happiness and even more time together than we had."
Kellie M. Walsh (Reader)
"With one I drank cheap vodka and built a fort. With the other, I
learned
to drive stick shift. One found me when lost and abandoned in the mean
streets of Pittsburgh. The other gave me shelter when I needed a place
to escape. With Robyn and Max, as individuals and as a unit, I have
shared
much laughter and a good dose of tears. I am honored to be here today
to
share in both again."
(Kellie didn't follow the rules of third person, but as an
occasional
poet, she has been granted special dispensation.)
Taylor Wray (Best Man)
Taylor met Max in college and is happy to serve as "one of his Best
Men." Prior credits include Groom, for himself, in 2001; Runner of
Errands,
for Susan Bartlett in 1998; Best Man for his brother, Justin, in 1997;
and Ring Bearer, for Aunt Carla in 1981. This is Taylor's New Hampshire
Wedding debut and he is honored to stand up with Max on this special
occasion.
Taylor and his wife, Katie, wish Max and Robyn much happiness in their
life together.
In a time when nothing is more certain than change, the commitment
of
two people to one another has become difficult and rare. Yet, by its
scarcity,
the beauty and value of this exchange have only been enhanced..
- Robert Sexton, The Vow
Some people forget that love is tucking you in and kissing you "Good
night" no matter how old or young you are
- Nikki Giovanni, Love Is
Life has loveliness to sell,
All beautiful and splendid things.
...
Spend all you have for loveliness,
Buy it, and never count the cost
For one white singing hour of peace
Count many a year of strife well lost,
And for a breath of ecstasy
Give all you have been, or could be.
- Sara Teasdale, Barter
Love is like pi—natural, irrational, and very important.
- Lisa Hoffman
To love someone deeply gives you strength. Being loved by someone
deeply
gives you courage.
- Lau Tzu
Love is everything it's cracked up to be. That's why people are so
cynical
about it. It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking
everything
for. And the trouble is, if you don't risk anything, you risk even
more.
- Erica Jong
May your hands be forever clasped in friendship and your hearts
joined
forever in love.
- Traditional Blessing
Where love is, there is God also.
- Leo Tolstoy
What is a friend? A single soul dwelling in two bodies.
- Aristotle
Love does not consist of gazing at each other, but in looking
outward
together in the same direction.
- Antoine de Saint Exupery
Love. What a small word we use for an idea so immense and powerful
it
has altered the flow of history, calmed monsters, kindled works of art,
cheered the forlorn, turned tough guts to mush, consoled the enslaved,
driven strong women mad, glorified the humble, fueled national
scandals,
bankrupted robber barons, and made mincemeat of kings.
- Diane Ackerman, A History of Love
Parents
Bob Nace
Clyde Chittister
Kathy (Matoney) Nace
Sandy (Trimble) Chittister
Sibling
Ann Nace
Aunts
&
Uncles
Bill Matoney
Bruce Shepherd
Carol (Matoney) Demorest
Donna Matoney
Ed Price
Joe Chittester
Joe Matoney, Jr.
Jon Demorest
Lowell O'Connor
Lynn Matoney
Molly (Trimble) Carr
Monica Price
Pam (Trimble) Johnson
Steve Nace
Susan (Matoney) Shepherd
Terry (Nace) Caruso
Virginia (Dumm) Broderick
Wallie (Nace) O'Connor
Wayne Carr
Cousins
& More Cousins
Adam Ginsburg
Benjamin Singer
Bill Matoney
Carly Hughes
Christine Chittester
Dan Matoney
Eden Ginsburg
Gia D'Antonio
Heather (Matoney) D'Antonio
Jake Shepherd
Jen Matoney
Jen Myers
Jessica Demorest
Joe O'Connor
Kristen (Matoney) Ginsburg
Mike Chittester
Nick Shepherd
Pat Chittester
Sandy Shepherd
Sarah Matoney
Scott Shepherd
Shirley Chittester
Stephen Rocco D'Antonio
Stephen Roth D'Antonio
Sue O'Connor
Thomas O'Connor
Tom Chittester
Tracy Williams
Tyler Demorest
Vern O'Connor
Wayne Carr, Jr.
Willie Carr
Family
Friends
& Relations
Bill Kratz
Jim Rose
Joanna Roth
Louise Kratz
Pre-College
Friends & Relations
Annemarie Goslow
David Zwicker
Helena Lundquist
Kari Dickinson
Nina Morgenlander
Penny Rowe
Pete Hummon
Rob Socha
College
Friends & Relations
Adam Shlian
Alex Benton
Anna Lorch
Ayne Terceira
Caroline Nam
Cheryl Platz
Donovan Chase
Gus Prevas
Hunter Howe
Jason Specland
Jeff C. Kunins
Jenn Pellecchia
Jeremy Kriegel
Karina Griffith
Katie Wray
Kellie M. Walsh
Krista Contino
Lisa Beiter
Lou Bojarski
Maurice Kessler
Paula Galloway
Ron Laufer
Sharon Carnicelli
Sharona Jacobs
Taylor Wray
New
Hampshire
Friends & Relations
Ben Dick
Christine Frydenborg, Ph.D.
Greg Fortier
Joanne (Fortier) Gamache
Marc Gamache
Maria E. Barry
Melissa Groff
Nicolas Gamache
Phil Young
Shawna D'Amour
Sheri Lynn Fournier
Steve Flaherty
Traci Bisaillon
Co-Workers
& Relations
Augustus Gilchrist
Ben Gelernter
Cathy Coury
Dave Cummings
Deb Owens
Edna Elle
George Eross
Heather Cummings
Ira Cooper
Jeff Belanger
Jennifer Swonger
Julia Buck
Katie Swonger
Ken Kipnes
Lucy Gilchrist
Mason Elle-Gelernter
Noah Cummings
Roy Swonger
Sally Morris
Scott Bois
Susan Shepard
Ted Gilchrist
Trisha Swonger
Max and Robyn wish to remember those who are here in spirit:
Grandma Missestoney • Norine (Dumm) Matoney
Grandma Babica • Theresa (Ochocki) Nace Lee
Grandma Chittester • Ann Chittester
Grandpa • John Trimble
Aunt Sally • Sally (Evans) Matoney
"Love is how you stay alive, even after you are gone." - Morrie
Schwartz
In Our
Thoughts
Many individuals regret that they were unable to attend today. We keep
them in our thoughts, especially:
Louis and Ann Lois Rose, Max's uncle and aunt
Wendy and Sid Tucker, good friends of Max and Robyn
"Life is fortified by many friendships—To love and be loved is the
greatest happiness of existence." - Sydney Smith
Special Thanks
Thank all of you for sharing in our wedding celebration.
Robyn thanks her attendants, who have consistently been there for her.
Max thanks his attendants, for being attentive.
We thank Pete, Jason, and Christine for sharing their talents today.
We thank Joanne, for guiding us and going along on the journey.
We thank Jake, Jennifer, and Katie, and their parents, for being
patient.
There are some individuals who have gone above and beyond the call
of
duty. We thank:
Kellie, for always listening.
Alex, for acting as tour guide.
Deb, Joanne, and Traci, for acting as wedding dress consultants.
Shawna, Katie, and Melissa, for coming along on fittings.
Lisa, Adam, Jenn, and Gus for being all-around helpful folks.
Katie, for being everything, although you had "no responsibilities
here whatsoever."
| 4:15 to 5:30 p.m. | Cocktail hour Groups are photographed in the Mary Keane House Garden |
| 5:30 p.m. | Guests are seated |
| 5:45 p.m. | The wedding party is announced Toasts by Taylor Wray, Penny Rowe, and Diane Matoney Blessing, Psalm 1, read by Sandy Chittister |
| 6:00 to 7:15 p.m. | Buffet dinner; a server will invite you to the buffet tables |
| 7:15 p.m. | The cutting of the cake A Toast to Our Families, by Max and Robyn |
| 7:30 p.m. | Our First Dance, "Once Upon a Dream" from Sleeping Beauty
Father/Daughter Dance, "Stardust" by Nat King Cole |
| 10:30 p.m. | Reception concludes |
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